I have a confession to make. I am a 33-year-old, white, straight man and only in the last year have I started to understand my white privilege. I am embarrassed to share that it has taken me this long. I have been naïve. I have been the person who said, “I don’t see color.” I have been the person who would say, “I grew up with mostly friends who were of color.” And sadly, I have even uttered the words, “All Lives Matter.”