Episode 29: Inspiring Duos - Ed & Janie Alaniz
/I DO, WE DO - EPISODE 29: Inspiring Duos - Ed & Janie Alaniz
We’re so excited to be bringing you another interview. This one is extra special because we are sitting down and chatting with Ashley’s parents Ed & Janie Alaniz. Having celebrated their 40th wedding anniversary, they share all their tips for balancing different personalities and using values to ground yourself and your relationship. Plus hear their real opinion of Billy 7 years after joining the family! Music “Sunny” by Bensound.com.
What We Talked About in this Episode:
How Ashley’s parents identify as total opposites
Janie is the social butterfly, Ed is the quiet observant type
The key step in the managing differences in a relationship
Mutual respect! - There is no need to force the other person to be like the other
The best examples of collaboration in their relationship
Managing their parent roles equally
Ed earning his MBA while working full-time and Janie was pregnant with Ashley’s sister
The moment when they knew Ashley would build a career in service to others
Where their passion for service came from
Janie’s inspiration from a fellow cancer survivor
Ed’s Catholic upbringing… and how he stole candy during service projects!
The thing Billy & Ed share in common
How Billy’s values helped Ed & Janie better understand him as a future son-in-law
Its okay to disagree but you need to understand their values and where the other person is coming from